|Dublin: The Ha'PennyBridge over the River Liffey|
When I told some of my friends what I was planning, a lot of people said, "I would love to go somewhere like that, but I just can't afford it." Now, I understand that some of us are in our post-college tiny apartment eating ramen and driving a car held together with duct tape, while others are in that all my money and time goes to this little drooly person/people that appeared in my life about the time I lost my waist and ability to sleep past 7 on the weekends. But many people I know are about where I am- not wealthy, but making decent money and probably spending a lot of it on crap we don't really need. So this post is directed at you:
Remember when you were little, and your parents gave you an allowance? You would be all ready to spend every cent that day on candy or swirly pencils or comic books or whatever. Your parents would probably say, "You could spend it all on that today, or you could save it for a few weeks and get something really nice." Did you learn that lesson?
If you want to do something extravagant and expensive, you just have to make it a priority. About a year ago, I set up an extra savings account. Every time I worked overtime or got paid extra for working on a holiday, I stuck some or all of the money in the account. I also starting putting a fixed amount out of every paycheck into that account. The trick is to put the money aside as soon as you get paid- don't wait until the last day before your next payday because there won't be much left. If you take the money out first, you will somehow live without it (this concept was shamelessly stolen from a book called The Automatic Millionaire by David Bach). After a while, you will have a decent pile of cash and probably fewer unwise purchases cluttering up your house.
Deciding that I want to take some expensive trips also means a few lifestyle decisions. For example, I am currently driving around in an 8-year old Huyndai with just under 100,000 miles. I could certainly afford a newer vehicle, but a car payment would limit my budget for travel. Obviously I will have to prioritize a new (or less used) car in the not too distant future, but I am putting it off as long as possible.
Extravagant travel may not be your big goal, but I bet there is something you want that you haven't done or bought because of cost. You can afford it, you just need a little time and dicipline to get there.
So good luck and KISS (Keep It Simple Stupid)!